Thursday, February 2, 2017

Joy and Grief Live in the Same Place

I just returned from a 4 day trip to New York, and I am feeling tired, I'm fighting a cold (and losing) and I am still struggling to comprehend that someone who was such an amazing part of this world is no longer with us.

I found myself marveling at the resilience of the human spirit as I watched loved ones smile through their tears and connect despite sadness. 

Anytime I have to drive somewhere I try to make at least one stop that will be memorable and meaningful, even if it's just getting off the main roads and finding a unique place to take a break or have a picnic lunch.  From battlefields to old chapels, to historical dive bars, I have created some incredible experiences. 

Although I have been to Niagara before, I knew if at all possible this would be my pit stop for this road trip.  The moments of joy I experienced here are beyond words.  Being able to take Ellie for a run with the breathtaking view and sounds is a feeling I will carry with me forever. 

It was so cold my eyelashes were freezing together as I ran and my toes and fingers are still thawing out.  Yet it will go down as one of the most amazing runs ever.  After 17 hours in the vehicle the day before I am pretty sure it was the most amazing run ever for Ellie too!

Being able to find moments of happiness in the middle of so much sadness is a priceless gift.


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